support from the parents

[insert sigh of relief]
today i sat down with my parents and hashed out everything: their fears, my budget, my fears, my excitement, the possibilites. they really made this move less risky and more fun, which is incredible. i was expecting a certain amount of opposition, but instead got nothing but careful planning and support. then dad grilled out and the three of us had dinner, sharing and bonding over the excitement.